How to word a katb al-kitab (milkah) invitation
Name the ceremony plainly (katb al-kitab, milkah or marriage contract), say who invites, and give the date, time and place in that order. Keep it shorter and calmer than a wedding invitation, because the ceremony is often smaller and more family-centred.
What is the difference between katb al-kitab, milkah and the wedding?
Katb al-kitab, called milkah or 'aqd qiran in some Gulf countries, is the signing of the marriage contract. It is often held at home or in a small hall before the wedding party, and the guest list is usually smaller.
Say which one you mean on the card. A guest who reads only 'wedding' may expect a party and dress for it.
Which wording suits a formal ceremony?
A formal card names the ceremony, the couple and the hosts, and closes with thanks. This example comes from the product's copy library:
We would be honoured to have you join us for the marriage contract ceremony of Reem & Ahmad. Thursday, April 15th, 2027 7 p.m. Oasis Hall, Amman Hosted by the Khatib family With warm regards.
Which wording suits a warm family gathering?
When the ceremony is a family evening, a warmer line reads better and nobody feels the card is a notice.
Adapt the names, hosts and venue, and keep the date in one clear line:
We are so happy to be getting ready for the marriage contract ceremony of Reem & Ahmad, and we would love you to be there. Thursday, April 15th, 2027 7 p.m. Oasis Hall, Amman Hosted by the Khatib family It would mean more to us than you know.
What should I add for guests?
Say if there is a dinner afterwards, if the evening is for family only, and whether children are welcome. If men and women sit in separate rooms, tell each group which entrance to use.
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Questions and answers
Is 'milkah' the same as katb al-kitab?
Yes in practice: both mean the signing of the marriage contract. Milkah and 'aqd qiran are the names used in parts of the Gulf and the Levant.
Should the invitation include the wedding party details?
Only if the same guests are invited to both. Otherwise send separate invitations with their own dates and venues.
Do I need a Hijri date?
Many families write both dates for the ceremony. Type both in your wording, since the editor does not convert dates for you.